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Mentally ill - Incest Victim Or Her Mother?
veena , delhi: Jun 23 2009
Made Popular Jun 24 2009
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Mentally ill - Incest Victim Or Her Mother?

Again the same horrifying story, a 11 year old girl in Mumbai was raped that too violently,one shudders to even think about it,on Friday.She was suffering from pain and and burning sensation in her private parts.When her mother and her aunt took her to Sion Hospital her rape came into light. The medical examination showed that she was sexually assaulted.

Further interrogation led to the discovery of the fact that she was being raped by her father for last three years. These are the medically proven facts.

Now for the bizzare reality. The CMO (Chief Medical Officer) on duty told the two females accompanying her that getting the child admitted would amount to a police complaint. may be the CMO was tired after a hectic day at work or whatever the reason be but it seems that she told the mother and aunt of the child to go away,perhaps warning them about the hassles they would face if such thing became public.This was when the girl was examined,her history recorded in the presence of a padeatric regitrar.

Meanwhile it was the turn of another CMO who just turned in for her duty,She persuaded the mother to lodge a police complaint.The mother perhaps in the mean time weighed her pros and cons and apparently the husband won this time (doesn’t he, every single time). So she did what a obedient, faithful wife would do.She told everyone that the girl had head injury because of an accident three years ago,so she was mentally ill,she was not raped at all and surely not by her husband, then she and the aunt took the girl away.No one in the hospital stopped them.

As per the Dean of Sion Hospital Sandhya Kamat,such an incident did took place in the hospital but was silent on the issue of reporting the matter to the police,whereas it is mandatory to do so,so says the head of the Medico-Legal Cell of Association of the Medical Consultants, Dr.Lalit Kapoor.

Who is mentally ill here, the mother, the aunt,the CMO,everyone but the only sane person who is punished and is doomed for whole life is the young girl who is only 11 years old. Unfortunately even words fail to describe the depraved Father.

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Prassoon Suryadas 498a.org
Austin, Texas, United States
source please
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Ekta
Jaipur, India
You know something Prasoon........YOU ARE SICK!! Go get a life. If this happens to your sister, then ask your mother to get a source to file a complaint against your dad. People like you should burn in hell who can't understand the pain of an 11 yr old girl. I can't believe somebody can fall to such a level.
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Prassoon Suryadas 498a.org
Austin, Texas, United States
Ekta, whats wrong in asking source of information? This is a blog and no one is responsible for any article. I didnt ask for the source of rape. Cool down madam.
(Global Perspectives)
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Prasad
Howrah, India
Ekta
There is nothing secret in blogging.
http://www.hindu.com/2009/06/23/stories/2009062354030900.htm
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Chintan
Ambala, India
This is biggest tragedy in such cases that the mothers don't support the children. Maybe because of he fear that who will manage for the family expenses later on. That is why we say that women should be self dependent, no matter what.

And Prasoon, every time you should not behave like a stuck record. Have some humanity buddy.
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veena
delhi, India
Thanks Chintan for trying not to let this debate derail to antifeminist tirade
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Prassoon Suryadas 498a.org
Austin, Texas, United States
Chintan whats inhuman in asking source of information? People can stoop to any level, man.
(Global Perspectives)
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ROHAN D 498a.org
Bangalore, India
@Chintan,

Many mothers have left their male babies in the dustbin....so your arguement has no substance. women are being forced to compete with men by feminazis, hook or by crook! SHAME SHAME.
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Naomi
Richmond, United States
Poor girl!! How will she able to trust people around when her own parents betrayed her at such a small age. And her fault--- being a girl.
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veena
delhi, India
Yes Naomi that is the tragedy.and worse she will be suffering all through her life discarded by her parents for her innocent betrayal
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ROHAN D 498a.org
Bangalore, India
Even many boys are betrayed by their parents but the society does not sympathise with them. Only when it happens with women, society sympathises and blames it on their gender.....what about the boys?
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veena
delhi, India
Ekta,thanks
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Prassoon Suryadas 498a.org
Austin, Texas, United States
got it -
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/articleshow/4689670.cms

If this is true, it is not only pathetic, its disgusting, its revolting, its irresponsible, its illegal, its immoral, and most of all, its unacceptable!. I wonder why media didnt interview that dad. I dont know what made this man do this. 11 year old is definitly not gonna attract anyone sexually. Is he a psycho?
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veena
delhi, India
Prasoon, at least I try my best not to base my writeup on any fictitious article.
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@Veena

”Prasoon, at least I try my best not to base my writeup on any fictitious article.


..But you leave no stone unturned in showing men in poor light.Anyway,of late,you have changed a bit and started highlighing crimes committed by women.I appreciate new changes in you.

Some people have unnecssarily targeted Prasoon for seeking source of the news.They forget that we are living in world where women are finding rapes profitable.The Courts have seen many cases where fake rape cases were filed to settle scores!!

So I don’t find anything wrong in seeking the source to have a greater clarity.After all, if this case gets registered one will have to know the facts instead of relying on the outbursts of excited minds !!!

Lastly,it’s really tragic that little girl was subjected to such demonic cruelty !!
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Ekta
Jaipur, India
I appreciate you efforts Veena, to bring up the social issues all the time which helps us to get aware of our bright indian society.

I feel like crying after reading the article and suddenly read Prasoon's comment at the end. I could not control my anger.

Just imagine the pain of the child who's father is raping her since she was 9. At 9 we didn't even know what the word sex or rape mean. I feel terrible for the child. Where is god? Why doesn't he make such people impotent?
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veena
delhi, India
Hey Ekta,there are many people who will agree with you and double the number who will find faults,so there
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Sanwali
Shimla, India
Thanks for the article Veena. It feels terrible to read such stories. Hope god gives the girl courage move ahead in life and not just land up being a prostitute(as is observed in most of the cases). I hope govt helps the girl to get some psychiatric treatment to come over with it and arrange for her education(in case she’s has poor background)

Ekta, i understand what you felt.

Calm down girl as you know this is India and you’ll find such people around all the time.
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veena
delhi, India
Sanwali,if only she gets a proper support system most appropriately from her own mother perhaps it will be small step in right direction
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Hannah
Liverpool, United Kingdom
Both the parents have committed crime against the girl. Because the husband is involved in the rape, mother of the child backed out. This is ridiculous. The child is suffering because she is too young to take stand for herself. This should have been done by the mother and other members in the family.

I don't understand, where the world is heading??
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Ankita
Thane, India
you are right Hannah! Its two things that are not in her favor.
1. She's a girl
2. She's a kid

How can she fight for herself and who else will fight for her when her own parents are the monsters.
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Suryasnata
Chandigarh, India
Veena
Whatever may be the situation women are the sufferers at last. So women should unite themselves against injustice.
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veena
delhi, India
Rohan what gave you the idea that young boys who are subject to such perverted sexual behaviour are ignored or such treatment is taken in their stride.They are also victims and they also suffer the same way that young girls do.Such perverted behaviour whether it involves a girl or a boy should be condemned,A child is a child and whether girl or boy both feel the pain and suffer in the same manner.
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